Community Guidelines

Welcome to the our community. If you’re honest, kind and respectful to others, you’ll always be welcome here. If you choose not to be, you may not last. Our goal is to allow users to express themselves freely, so that they can get to know each other before deciding to meet, as long as it doesn’t offend others. Everyone is held to the same standard here. We’re asking you to be considerate, think before you act, and abide by our community guidelines both on and offline.


The quickest way to get kicked off the platform is by sending the wrong message. Don't be that person. 



If you wouldn’t say it to someone’s face, don’t say it here. Keep in mind, there is a human being on the other end of your screen. Be respectful with anyone you interact with in the community. If you are disrespectful, offensive, threatening or rude to another user, we reserve the right to ban you.



We have a zero-tolerance policy on hate speech. Any content that promotes or condones violence against individuals or groups based on race or ethnicity, religion, disability, gender, age, nationality, sexual orientation or gender identity is strictly forbidden and may result in you being permanently banned and may lead to criminal actions being taken against you.


We don't permit photos to be sent via chat, We don’t want to see anything we can’t unsee.



Any reports of stalking, threats, bullying, intimidation, invading privacy, or revealing other people's personal information are taken very seriously. That means no taking screenshots of other people’s profiles or conversations and posting or distributing them publicly. We reserves the right to ban any user that has exhibited behavior that is threatening, intentionally malicious, or harmful to other users. This includes using conversation from our site and chat and sharing on other media methods



We have a zero-tolerance policy on predatory behavior of any kind. Anyone attempting to get other users’ private information for fraudulent or illegal activity may be banned. Also, any user caught sharing their own financial account information (PayPal, Venmo, etc.) for the purpose of receiving money from other users may be banned



Sharing or requesting private information of any sort, such as phone numbers, social security numbers, addresses, passwords or financial information is subject to removal and may result in you being banned.


Don’t be fake. Be real instead. Soliciting other users is prohibited. If the purpose of your message is to drive people to external websites via a link or otherwise, it is probably in violation of our terms of service and may get you banned .


Let us know if you are having any issues with any of the rules, report to us if you believe that somebody has broken them, we do monitor chats but as you can imagine we have thousands of chat to watch and steward and the odd infringement might just get through. 

If neccessary, contact local law enforcement, then email